Psy-to-Nomics
Давайте Познакомимся (снова)
Узнавать друг друга и о друг друге всегда интересно, новые друзья или кто-то кого нам кажется мы знаем хорошо, а может быть и очень близкий вам человек. Давайте узнаем друг друга получше или познакомимся заново. 

Psy-to-Nomics - Приятного Узнавания
Однажды компания Therapy-U создала игру "You Know", я адаптировала эту игру в свою практику. Работаем ли мы в индивидуальной терапии, семейной терапии или во время корпоративного тренинга, узнавать друг друга всегда здорово и интересно, а еще это делает нас ближе и помогает понимать друг друга. Ниже предложен добрый и веселый способ познакомиться и поговорить.

Изначально игра была создана как карточная игра, в которой игроку предлагалось выбрать любую карту из 4 категорий и ответить на вопрос, а также задать этот вопрос всем игрокам. Ответы могут стать началом интересной дискуссии, что и является основной задачей.

Вашему вниманию предложены карточки в электронном формате. Выбирайте любые и знакомьтесь и беседуйте.
Категория 1
Выбирайте любую карточку чтобы познакомиться поближе
1 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Жить 100 лет в будущем времени (как бы это было?)
или
Жить 100 лет тому назад (почему?)
///
Live 100 years in the future (what will it be like?)
or
Live 100 years in the past (why?)
1 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Изменить что-то в себе (что?)
или
Уметь читать мысли (почему?)
///
Change something about yourself (what?)
or
Be able to read minds (why?)
2 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Знать когда ты женишься/выйдешь замуж (как это будет?)
или
Знать когда ты умрешь (как тебе это поможет?)
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Know when you will get married (what will it be like?)
or
Know when you are going to pass away (how will this help you?)
2 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Исчезать когда ты закрываешь глаза (как бы ты это использовал(а)?)
или
Уметь передвигать вещи при помощи мысли (как бы ты это использовал(а)?)
///
Disappear when you shut your eyes (how would you use this?)
or
Move things with your mind (how would you use this?)
3 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Не нравиться своим друзьям, но достигнуть многого (чего бы ты достиг(ла)?)
или
Нравиться своим друзьям, но добиться немногого в жизни (почему?)
///
Be disliked by friends but achieve much (what would you achieve?)
or
Be liked by your friends but achieve little (why?)
3 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Быть главой собственной компании (какой компании?)
или
Быть главой своей страны (чтобы ты сделал(а)?)
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Be the head of your own company (what type of company?)
or
Be the leader of your country (what would you do?)
4- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Чтобы твои родители всегда знали где ты (почему?)
или
Чтобы твои родители всегда знали что ты собираешься сказать (почему?)
///
Your parents always know where you are (why?)
or
Your parents always know what you say (why?)
4- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Застрять на лодке на месяц одному(й) (как бы ты проводил(а) время?)
или
Застрять на лодке с кем то, кто все время разговаривает (что бы ты делал(а)?)
///
Be stuck in a boat alone for a month (how would you pass time?)
or
Be stuck with someone who won't stop talking (what would you do?)
5- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Никогда не чувствовать боль (какая самая сильная боль которую ты испытывал(а)?)
или
Никогда не испытывать чувства страха (чего ты боишься?)
///
Never feel pain again (worst pain you have felt?)
or
Never feel fear again (what are you afraid of?)
5- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Познакомиться с твоим любимым актером/актрисой (кто это?)
или
Чтобы кто-то кто ты хочешь уехал подальше (кто?)
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Meet your favorite person/celebrity (who would this be?)
or
Have someone move away (who would this be?)
6 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Чтобы твои родители знали каждый раз когда ты используешь ругательства (почему люди ругаются?)
или
Чтобы твои родители знали каждый раз когда ты обманываешь/врешь (почему люди обманывают?)
///
Your parents know every time you cussed (why do people cuss?)
or
Your parents know every time you lied (why do people lie?)
6 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Ходить в школу 5 дней в неделю только с мальчиками/девочками (ты бы скучал по противоположному полу?)
или
Ходить в школу 3 раза в неделю но где все вместе (почему?)
///
Go to school 5 days a week with the same gender (would you miss the others?)
or
Go to school 3 days a week with the opposite gender (why?)
7- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
Рассказать свой самый большой секрет (кому бы ты рассказал(а)?)
или
Ходить в трусах в школе весь день (было ли тебе окгда нибудь стыдно?)
///
Tell your biggest secret (who do you tell secrets to?)
or
Walk in your underwear all day at school (what's a time you were embarrassed?)
7- Would you Rather...
Never get to have a pet (what would you miss?)
or
Have to take care of 10 pets (what would be hardest?)
8 - Would you Rather...
Live without arms (what would be hardest about this?)
or
Live without your feet (how would this change things?)
8 - Would you Rather...
Never be sad or depressed (what makes you saddest?)
or
Have 1 million dollars (what would you do with it?)
9- Would you Rather...
Have your own personal bodyguard (what would you use him for?)
or
Be the most athletic kid in school (at what sport?)
9- Would you Rather...
Have to give a speech to the whole class (do you ever get nervous?)
or
Cut your lawn with scissors (what makes you most nervous?)
10 - Would you Rather...
Take away something bad that you did (what did you do?)
or
Be able to skip boring times (what bores you the most?)
10 - Would you Rather...
Have the perfect body but not be able to run (why?)
or
Be the same as you are now (why?)
11 - Would you Rather...
Be shocked when you doubt yourself (when have you doubted yourself?)
or
Be shocked when you say something foolish (why?)
11 - Would you Rather...
Be shocked when you doubt yourself (why?)
or
Be shocked when you say something foolish (when have you doubted?)
12 - Would you Rather...
Have a friend that no one else can see (like what?)
or
Have a personal assistant at school (how would they help?)
13 - Would you Rather...
Have to talk to 100 people every day (why?)
or
Only get to talk to 1 person a week (who would you pick?)
13 - Would you Rather...
People think you were a liar (why?)
or
People think you were a thief (why?)
Section 2
Pick any card and get to know each other
1 - Would you Rather...
Be able to add 10 years to your life (why?)
or
Add 1 year to someone else's (whose?)
1 - Would you Rather...
Live to be a thousand years old (to accomplish what?)
or
Live to be 100 for 10 lives (talk about one life)
2 - Would you Rather...
Have a thousand dollars to spend (what would you spend it on?)
or
Have 1 million dollars to give away (who would you give it to?)
2 - Would you Rather...
Be able to change people's minds forever (how would you use this?)
or
Be famous for a year (what would you do?)
3 - Would you Rather
Travel the world for 5 years (where would you enjoy most?)
or
Live in your dream house (what would this look like?)
3 - Would you Rather...
Lose every time you play a game (what game are you best at?)
or
Have no one want to play against you (what game would you miss?)
4- Would you Rather...
Be stuck in a warm, dark place (why?)
or
Be stuck in a freezing, sunny place (why?)
4- Would you Rather...
Lose your ability to see (what would you miss?)
or
Have a perfect vision but have 3 eyes (how would you adapt?)
5- Would you Rather...
Be able to erase people's memories (how would you use this?)
or
Be able to erase your own memories (what would you erase?)
5- Would you Rather...
Be the smartest person in the country (how would you use this?)
or
Be able to teleport anywhere (where would you go?)
6 - Would you Rather...
Be guaranteed wealth for the rest of your life (what would you use it for?)
or
Be guaranteed happiness (why?)
6 - Would you Rather...
Live in the same town forever (what would be toughest?)
or
Have to move every 2 years (where would you miss?)
7- Would you Rather...
Have one more brother or sister (why?)
or
Have one less brother or sister (what don't you like?)
7- Would you Rather...
Live in a mansion and work every day (why?)
or
Live in a shack working 1 day (what would you do the other days?)
8 - Would you Rather...
Be able to change one thing about you (what would you change?)
or
Be able to change one thing about your family (what would you change?)
8 - Would you Rather...
Have any friends join your class at school (who?)
or
Have someone moved to another class (who and why?)
9- Would you Rather...
Be able to hear everyone's thoughts (how would this help?)
or
Be able to teleport anywhere (where would you go?)
9- Would you Rather...
Never be able to use electronics (why?)
or
Never be able to talk to friends at school (why?)
10 - Would you Rather...
Always get 2nd place in everything (why?)
or
Be last most of the time but occasionally 1st (why?)
10 - Would you Rather...
Be one of the first to live on a new planet (what would it be like?)
or
Never step foot off earth (why?)
11 - Would you Rather...
Be known for being a nice person (why?)
or
Be known for being talented (in what?)
11 - Would you Rather...
Everyone in your family has one wish (why?)
or
Have 3 wishes all to yourself (what would you wish?)
12 - Would you Rather...
Have the answer to any 3 questions (what questions?)
or
Be able to skip school for a year (what would you do?)
13 - Would you Rather...
Have to stay indoors forever (why?)
or
Live outside forever (why?)
13 - Would you Rather...
Live with your favorite people on a glacier (who would you live with?)
or
Live and travel anywhere, but always alone (where would you live?)
Section 3
Pick any card and get to know each other
1 - Would you Rather...
Lose your ability to hear (what will you miss most?)
or
Lose your ability to speak (what will be hardest?)
1 - Would you Rather...
Be around people all day for a year (what would be hardest?)
or
Be alone for a year (what would you do?)
2 - Would you Rather...
Change one thing about your appearance (what would you change?)
or
Improve your skill level at something (what would that be?)
2 - Would you Rather...
Have a pet that will never pass away (what animal would it be?)
or
Win the million-dollar lottery ( what would you do first?)
3 - Would you Rather
Lose your memory (except for people) (why would this be hard?)
or
Lose your ability to see (what would you miss?)
3 - Would you Rather...
Be caught in a big lie (why?)
or
Wear a funny haircut for a year (what crazy haircut?)
4- Would you Rather...
Be able to turn invisible ( how would you use this?)
or
Be able to heal people (who would you heal?)
4- Would you Rather...
Live the life you currently have (what do you like about it?)
or
Re-do your life and be able to make changes (what would you change?)
5- Would you Rather...
Live in a world with no crime but strict rules (why?)
or
Live with no rules, but in a world full of crime (what would you do?)
5- Would you Rather...
Have no kids when you grow up (would you miss kids?)
or
Have 10 kids when you grow up (what would be the toughest?)
6 - Would you Rather...
Change one thing about the world (what would you change?)
or
Change one thing about yourself (what would you change?)
6 - Would you Rather...
Pick what you want to be when you grow up (what do you want to be?)
or
Pick where you want to live (where?)
7- Would you Rather...
Lose your hair slowly over 10 years (why?)
or
Lose your voice in 20 years (why?)
7- Would you Rather...
Have a 3-week summer break anywhere (where?)
or
Have a regular summer break (how would you spend it?)
8 - Would you Rather...
Be the most popular kid in school (what would you do?)
or
Be the smartest kid in school (why?)
8 - Would you Rather...
Be able to change one thing about you (what would you change?)
or
Be able to change one thing about a friend (what would you change?)
9- Would you Rather...
Be embarrassed in front of the school (what things embarrass you?)
or
Watch your best friend get embarrassed (what things embarrass you?)
9- Would you Rather...
Face your biggest fear every day (what's your biggest fear?)
or
Never be able to leave your home (what's your biggest fear?)
10 - Would you Rather...
Live in the future 1 million years from now (what will it be like?)
or
Live when dinosaurs lived on Earth (why?)
10 - Would you Rather...
Be rich but not famous (what would you do with it?)
or
Be famous but not rich (famous for what?)
11 - Would you Rather...
Have the number one song on the radio (what kind of music?)
or
Your family and friends never move away (why?)
11 - Would you Rather...
Never be able to drive (what would you do?)
or
Live with your parents forever (why?)
12 - Would you Rather...
Be the lead singer of an average band (why?)
or
Be a backup in the number 1 band (why?)
13 - Would you Rather...
Win 10,000 dollars now (what would you do?)
or
Win 1 million dollars when you are 60 (why?)
13 - Would you Rather...
Lose your ability to walk (how would you adapt?)
or
Lose your ability to see (why?)
Section 4
Pick any card and get to know each other
1 - Would you Rather...
Have the biggest backyard (what would you do?)
or
Have the biggest TV (to use it for what?)
1 - Would you Rather...
Be tired but look great (why?)
or
Look sleepy but feel rested (what would you do?)
2 - Would you Rather...
Be able to talk to someone no longer living (who?)
or
Be able to fly for a day (where would you go?)
2 - Would you Rather...
Go without seeing friends for a year (what would you do?)
or
Have no electricity for a year (what would be hardest?)
3 - Would you Rather
Your face turns blue when you are sad (when have you been sad?)
or
Your nose grows longer when you lie (when have you lied?)
3 - Would you Rather...
Give up your favorite possession /toy (what would this be?)
or
Dig holes for a whole day (why?)
4- Would you Rather...
Your friends always know where you are (why?)
or
Your friends know everything you have said (why?)
4- Would you Rather...
Lose your ability to talk for a year (how would this change you?)
or
Lose your ability to walk for a year (what would you do?)
5- Would you Rather...
Never feel depressed or sad (what makes you sad?)
or
Never be afraid again (what are you afraid of?)
5- Would you Rather...
Wear the same clothes every day, but bather (what would you wear?)
or
Change clothes daily, but never get to bathe (why is this important?)
6 - Would you Rather...
Spend all day with 10 of your friends (what would you do?)
or
Spend all day with 1 of your friends (what would you do?)
6 - Would you Rather...
Get to have more pets (what kind of pet?)
or
Have more friends (what would they be like?)
7- Would you Rather...
Have 2 Christmases every year (why?)
or
Have 2 Birthdays every year (why?)
7- Would you Rather...
Not being able to read (what type of books do you like?)
or
Not being able to play sports (what sport would you miss most?)
8 - Would you Rather...
Be able to rewind time (what would you rewind to?)
or
Be able to know the future (what would you want to know?)
8 - Would you Rather...
Have 1,000 dollars to go shopping (where would you shop?)
or
Have a secret hideaway (what would you use this for?)
9- Would you Rather...
Talk to the prettiest boy or girl in school (what would you talk about?)
or
Clean the school toilets (do boys/girls make you nervous?)
9- Would you Rather...
Be able to re-play happy times (what's one of your happiest?)
or
Be able to fast forward to sad times (when were your saddest?)
10 - Would you Rather...
Be able to speak with animals (who would you talk to?)
or
Play video games for a living (what game?)
10 - Would you Rather...
Have a date with any girl/boy anytime you want (why?)
or
Know the answers to every test question (why?)
11 - Would you Rather...
Be stranded for 5 years with friends (why?)
or
Be stranded for 5 years with 5 celebrities (who?)
11 - Would you Rather...
Have 5 missing teeth (why?)
or
Have knees that always hurt when you walk (why?)
12 - Would you Rather...
All your friends be better looking (why?)
or
All your friends be smarter than you (why?)
13 - Would you Rather...
Be the last person on earth (what would you do?)
or
Be with 100 other people (half are violent) (why?)
13 - Would you Rather...
Be on a magazine for being successful (what would it be in?)
or
Be on a magazine for being attractive (why?)
Made on
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