Psy-to-Nomics
Давайте Познакомимся (снова)
Узнавать друг друга и о друг друге всегда интересно, новые друзья или кто-то кого нам кажется мы знаем хорошо, а может быть и очень близкий вам человек. Давайте узнаем друг друга получше или познакомимся заново. 

Psy-to-Nomics - Приятного Узнавания
Однажды компания Therapy-U создала игру "You Know", я адаптировала эту игру в свою практику. Работаем ли мы в индивидуальной терапии, семейной терапии или во время корпоративного тренинга, узнавать друг друга всегда здорово и интересно, а еще это делает нас ближе и помогает понимать друг друга. Ниже предложен добрый и веселый способ познакомиться и поговорить.

Изначально игра была создана как карточная игра, в которой игроку предлагалось выбрать любую карту из 4 категорий и ответить на вопрос, а также задать этот вопрос всем игрокам. Ответы могут стать началом интересной дискуссии, что и является основной задачей.

Вашему вниманию предложены карточки в электронном формате. Выбирайте любые и знакомьтесь и беседуйте.
Категория 1
Выбирайте любую карточку чтобы познакомиться поближе
  • 1 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Жить 100 лет в будущем времени (как бы это было?)
    или
    Жить 100 лет тому назад (почему?)
    ///
    Live 100 years in the future (what will it be like?)
    or
    Live 100 years in the past (why?)
  • 1 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Изменить что-то в себе (что?)
    или
    Уметь читать мысли (почему?)
    ///
    Change something about yourself (what?)
    or
    Be able to read minds (why?)
  • 2 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Знать когда ты женишься/выйдешь замуж (как это будет?)
    или
    Знать когда ты умрешь (как тебе это поможет?)
    ///
    Know when you will get married (what will it be like?)
    or
    Know when you are going to pass away (how will this help you?)
  • 2 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Исчезать когда ты закрываешь глаза (как бы ты это использовал(а)?)
    или
    Уметь передвигать вещи при помощи мысли (как бы ты это использовал(а)?)
    ///
    Disappear when you shut your eyes (how would you use this?)
    or
    Move things with your mind (how would you use this?)
  • 3 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Не нравиться своим друзьям, но достигнуть многого (чего бы ты достиг(ла)?)
    или
    Нравиться своим друзьям, но добиться немногого в жизни (почему?)
    ///
    Be disliked by friends but achieve much (what would you achieve?)
    or
    Be liked by your friends but achieve little (why?)
  • 3 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Быть главой собственной компании (какой компании?)
    или
    Быть главой своей страны (чтобы ты сделал(а)?)
    ///
    Be the head of your own company (what type of company?)
    or
    Be the leader of your country (what would you do?)
  • 4- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Чтобы твои родители всегда знали где ты (почему?)
    или
    Чтобы твои родители всегда знали что ты собираешься сказать (почему?)
    ///
    Your parents always know where you are (why?)
    or
    Your parents always know what you say (why?)
  • 4- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Застрять на лодке на месяц одному(й) (как бы ты проводил(а) время?)
    или
    Застрять на лодке с кем то, кто все время разговаривает (что бы ты делал(а)?)
    ///
    Be stuck in a boat alone for a month (how would you pass time?)
    or
    Be stuck with someone who won't stop talking (what would you do?)
  • 5- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Никогда не чувствовать боль (какая самая сильная боль которую ты испытывал(а)?)
    или
    Никогда не испытывать чувства страха (чего ты боишься?)
    ///
    Never feel pain again (worst pain you have felt?)
    or
    Never feel fear again (what are you afraid of?)
  • 5- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Познакомиться с твоим любимым актером/актрисой (кто это?)
    или
    Чтобы кто-то кто ты хочешь уехал подальше (кто?)
    ///
    Meet your favorite person/celebrity (who would this be?)
    or
    Have someone move away (who would this be?)
  • 6 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Чтобы твои родители знали каждый раз когда ты используешь ругательства (почему люди ругаются?)
    или
    Чтобы твои родители знали каждый раз когда ты обманываешь/врешь (почему люди обманывают?)
    ///
    Your parents know every time you cussed (why do people cuss?)
    or
    Your parents know every time you lied (why do people lie?)
  • 6 - Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Ходить в школу 5 дней в неделю только с мальчиками/девочками (ты бы скучал по противоположному полу?)
    или
    Ходить в школу 3 раза в неделю но где все вместе (почему?)
    ///
    Go to school 5 days a week with the same gender (would you miss the others?)
    or
    Go to school 3 days a week with the opposite gender (why?)
  • 7- Чтобы ты выбрал(а)...
    Рассказать свой самый большой секрет (кому бы ты рассказал(а)?)
    или
    Ходить в трусах в школе весь день (было ли тебе окгда нибудь стыдно?)
    ///
    Tell your biggest secret (who do you tell secrets to?)
    or
    Walk in your underwear all day at school (what's a time you were embarrassed?)
  • 7- Would you Rather...
    Never get to have a pet (what would you miss?)
    or
    Have to take care of 10 pets (what would be hardest?)
  • 8 - Would you Rather...
    Live without arms (what would be hardest about this?)
    or
    Live without your feet (how would this change things?)
  • 8 - Would you Rather...
    Never be sad or depressed (what makes you saddest?)
    or
    Have 1 million dollars (what would you do with it?)
  • 9- Would you Rather...
    Have your own personal bodyguard (what would you use him for?)
    or
    Be the most athletic kid in school (at what sport?)
  • 9- Would you Rather...
    Have to give a speech to the whole class (do you ever get nervous?)
    or
    Cut your lawn with scissors (what makes you most nervous?)
  • 10 - Would you Rather...
    Take away something bad that you did (what did you do?)
    or
    Be able to skip boring times (what bores you the most?)
  • 10 - Would you Rather...
    Have the perfect body but not be able to run (why?)
    or
    Be the same as you are now (why?)
  • 11 - Would you Rather...
    Be shocked when you doubt yourself (when have you doubted yourself?)
    or
    Be shocked when you say something foolish (why?)
  • 11 - Would you Rather...
    Be shocked when you doubt yourself (why?)
    or
    Be shocked when you say something foolish (when have you doubted?)
  • 12 - Would you Rather...
    Have a friend that no one else can see (like what?)
    or
    Have a personal assistant at school (how would they help?)
  • 13 - Would you Rather...
    Have to talk to 100 people every day (why?)
    or
    Only get to talk to 1 person a week (who would you pick?)
  • 13 - Would you Rather...
    People think you were a liar (why?)
    or
    People think you were a thief (why?)
Section 2
Pick any card and get to know each other
  • 1 - Would you Rather...
    Be able to add 10 years to your life (why?)
    or
    Add 1 year to someone else's (whose?)
  • 1 - Would you Rather...
    Live to be a thousand years old (to accomplish what?)
    or
    Live to be 100 for 10 lives (talk about one life)
  • 2 - Would you Rather...
    Have a thousand dollars to spend (what would you spend it on?)
    or
    Have 1 million dollars to give away (who would you give it to?)
  • 2 - Would you Rather...
    Be able to change people's minds forever (how would you use this?)
    or
    Be famous for a year (what would you do?)
  • 3 - Would you Rather
    Travel the world for 5 years (where would you enjoy most?)
    or
    Live in your dream house (what would this look like?)
  • 3 - Would you Rather...
    Lose every time you play a game (what game are you best at?)
    or
    Have no one want to play against you (what game would you miss?)
  • 4- Would you Rather...
    Be stuck in a warm, dark place (why?)
    or
    Be stuck in a freezing, sunny place (why?)
  • 4- Would you Rather...
    Lose your ability to see (what would you miss?)
    or
    Have a perfect vision but have 3 eyes (how would you adapt?)
  • 5- Would you Rather...
    Be able to erase people's memories (how would you use this?)
    or
    Be able to erase your own memories (what would you erase?)
  • 5- Would you Rather...
    Be the smartest person in the country (how would you use this?)
    or
    Be able to teleport anywhere (where would you go?)
  • 6 - Would you Rather...
    Be guaranteed wealth for the rest of your life (what would you use it for?)
    or
    Be guaranteed happiness (why?)
  • 6 - Would you Rather...
    Live in the same town forever (what would be toughest?)
    or
    Have to move every 2 years (where would you miss?)
  • 7- Would you Rather...
    Have one more brother or sister (why?)
    or
    Have one less brother or sister (what don't you like?)
  • 7- Would you Rather...
    Live in a mansion and work every day (why?)
    or
    Live in a shack working 1 day (what would you do the other days?)
  • 8 - Would you Rather...
    Be able to change one thing about you (what would you change?)
    or
    Be able to change one thing about your family (what would you change?)
  • 8 - Would you Rather...
    Have any friends join your class at school (who?)
    or
    Have someone moved to another class (who and why?)
  • 9- Would you Rather...
    Be able to hear everyone's thoughts (how would this help?)
    or
    Be able to teleport anywhere (where would you go?)
  • 9- Would you Rather...
    Never be able to use electronics (why?)
    or
    Never be able to talk to friends at school (why?)
  • 10 - Would you Rather...
    Always get 2nd place in everything (why?)
    or
    Be last most of the time but occasionally 1st (why?)
  • 10 - Would you Rather...
    Be one of the first to live on a new planet (what would it be like?)
    or
    Never step foot off earth (why?)
  • 11 - Would you Rather...
    Be known for being a nice person (why?)
    or
    Be known for being talented (in what?)
  • 11 - Would you Rather...
    Everyone in your family has one wish (why?)
    or
    Have 3 wishes all to yourself (what would you wish?)
  • 12 - Would you Rather...
    Have the answer to any 3 questions (what questions?)
    or
    Be able to skip school for a year (what would you do?)
  • 13 - Would you Rather...
    Have to stay indoors forever (why?)
    or
    Live outside forever (why?)
  • 13 - Would you Rather...
    Live with your favorite people on a glacier (who would you live with?)
    or
    Live and travel anywhere, but always alone (where would you live?)
Section 3
Pick any card and get to know each other
  • 1 - Would you Rather...
    Lose your ability to hear (what will you miss most?)
    or
    Lose your ability to speak (what will be hardest?)
  • 1 - Would you Rather...
    Be around people all day for a year (what would be hardest?)
    or
    Be alone for a year (what would you do?)
  • 2 - Would you Rather...
    Change one thing about your appearance (what would you change?)
    or
    Improve your skill level at something (what would that be?)
  • 2 - Would you Rather...
    Have a pet that will never pass away (what animal would it be?)
    or
    Win the million-dollar lottery ( what would you do first?)
  • 3 - Would you Rather
    Lose your memory (except for people) (why would this be hard?)
    or
    Lose your ability to see (what would you miss?)
  • 3 - Would you Rather...
    Be caught in a big lie (why?)
    or
    Wear a funny haircut for a year (what crazy haircut?)
  • 4- Would you Rather...
    Be able to turn invisible ( how would you use this?)
    or
    Be able to heal people (who would you heal?)
  • 4- Would you Rather...
    Live the life you currently have (what do you like about it?)
    or
    Re-do your life and be able to make changes (what would you change?)
  • 5- Would you Rather...
    Live in a world with no crime but strict rules (why?)
    or
    Live with no rules, but in a world full of crime (what would you do?)
  • 5- Would you Rather...
    Have no kids when you grow up (would you miss kids?)
    or
    Have 10 kids when you grow up (what would be the toughest?)
  • 6 - Would you Rather...
    Change one thing about the world (what would you change?)
    or
    Change one thing about yourself (what would you change?)
  • 6 - Would you Rather...
    Pick what you want to be when you grow up (what do you want to be?)
    or
    Pick where you want to live (where?)
  • 7- Would you Rather...
    Lose your hair slowly over 10 years (why?)
    or
    Lose your voice in 20 years (why?)
  • 7- Would you Rather...
    Have a 3-week summer break anywhere (where?)
    or
    Have a regular summer break (how would you spend it?)
  • 8 - Would you Rather...
    Be the most popular kid in school (what would you do?)
    or
    Be the smartest kid in school (why?)
  • 8 - Would you Rather...
    Be able to change one thing about you (what would you change?)
    or
    Be able to change one thing about a friend (what would you change?)
  • 9- Would you Rather...
    Be embarrassed in front of the school (what things embarrass you?)
    or
    Watch your best friend get embarrassed (what things embarrass you?)
  • 9- Would you Rather...
    Face your biggest fear every day (what's your biggest fear?)
    or
    Never be able to leave your home (what's your biggest fear?)
  • 10 - Would you Rather...
    Live in the future 1 million years from now (what will it be like?)
    or
    Live when dinosaurs lived on Earth (why?)
  • 10 - Would you Rather...
    Be rich but not famous (what would you do with it?)
    or
    Be famous but not rich (famous for what?)
  • 11 - Would you Rather...
    Have the number one song on the radio (what kind of music?)
    or
    Your family and friends never move away (why?)
  • 11 - Would you Rather...
    Never be able to drive (what would you do?)
    or
    Live with your parents forever (why?)
  • 12 - Would you Rather...
    Be the lead singer of an average band (why?)
    or
    Be a backup in the number 1 band (why?)
  • 13 - Would you Rather...
    Win 10,000 dollars now (what would you do?)
    or
    Win 1 million dollars when you are 60 (why?)
  • 13 - Would you Rather...
    Lose your ability to walk (how would you adapt?)
    or
    Lose your ability to see (why?)
Section 4
Pick any card and get to know each other
  • 1 - Would you Rather...
    Have the biggest backyard (what would you do?)
    or
    Have the biggest TV (to use it for what?)
  • 1 - Would you Rather...
    Be tired but look great (why?)
    or
    Look sleepy but feel rested (what would you do?)
  • 2 - Would you Rather...
    Be able to talk to someone no longer living (who?)
    or
    Be able to fly for a day (where would you go?)
  • 2 - Would you Rather...
    Go without seeing friends for a year (what would you do?)
    or
    Have no electricity for a year (what would be hardest?)
  • 3 - Would you Rather
    Your face turns blue when you are sad (when have you been sad?)
    or
    Your nose grows longer when you lie (when have you lied?)
  • 3 - Would you Rather...
    Give up your favorite possession /toy (what would this be?)
    or
    Dig holes for a whole day (why?)
  • 4- Would you Rather...
    Your friends always know where you are (why?)
    or
    Your friends know everything you have said (why?)
  • 4- Would you Rather...
    Lose your ability to talk for a year (how would this change you?)
    or
    Lose your ability to walk for a year (what would you do?)
  • 5- Would you Rather...
    Never feel depressed or sad (what makes you sad?)
    or
    Never be afraid again (what are you afraid of?)
  • 5- Would you Rather...
    Wear the same clothes every day, but bather (what would you wear?)
    or
    Change clothes daily, but never get to bathe (why is this important?)
  • 6 - Would you Rather...
    Spend all day with 10 of your friends (what would you do?)
    or
    Spend all day with 1 of your friends (what would you do?)
  • 6 - Would you Rather...
    Get to have more pets (what kind of pet?)
    or
    Have more friends (what would they be like?)
  • 7- Would you Rather...
    Have 2 Christmases every year (why?)
    or
    Have 2 Birthdays every year (why?)
  • 7- Would you Rather...
    Not being able to read (what type of books do you like?)
    or
    Not being able to play sports (what sport would you miss most?)
  • 8 - Would you Rather...
    Be able to rewind time (what would you rewind to?)
    or
    Be able to know the future (what would you want to know?)
  • 8 - Would you Rather...
    Have 1,000 dollars to go shopping (where would you shop?)
    or
    Have a secret hideaway (what would you use this for?)
  • 9- Would you Rather...
    Talk to the prettiest boy or girl in school (what would you talk about?)
    or
    Clean the school toilets (do boys/girls make you nervous?)
  • 9- Would you Rather...
    Be able to re-play happy times (what's one of your happiest?)
    or
    Be able to fast forward to sad times (when were your saddest?)
  • 10 - Would you Rather...
    Be able to speak with animals (who would you talk to?)
    or
    Play video games for a living (what game?)
  • 10 - Would you Rather...
    Have a date with any girl/boy anytime you want (why?)
    or
    Know the answers to every test question (why?)
  • 11 - Would you Rather...
    Be stranded for 5 years with friends (why?)
    or
    Be stranded for 5 years with 5 celebrities (who?)
  • 11 - Would you Rather...
    Have 5 missing teeth (why?)
    or
    Have knees that always hurt when you walk (why?)
  • 12 - Would you Rather...
    All your friends be better looking (why?)
    or
    All your friends be smarter than you (why?)
  • 13 - Would you Rather...
    Be the last person on earth (what would you do?)
    or
    Be with 100 other people (half are violent) (why?)
  • 13 - Would you Rather...
    Be on a magazine for being successful (what would it be in?)
    or
    Be on a magazine for being attractive (why?)